The Wisdom Of You

The Wisdom Of You

I own a bumper sticker that says "destined to be an old woman with no regrets." I haven't earned it yet. This is about using death as a measuring stick, and letting your 85-year-old self show you exactly where you're still white-knuckling something you were meant to let go of.
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What Holding Space Really Means

What Holding Space Really Means

Caregiving, Grief Coaching
"I've got you" is what we say. It's not always what we do. Holding space is a specific practice, not a passing comfort, and most of us were never actually taught how.
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Caregiver Burnout

Caregiver Burnout

Caregiving, Grief Coaching
Ed had severe osteoporosis. Edna's dementia had taken her ability to speak. Every day after lunch, he crouched down with warm water and a cloth to wash her feet anyway. I was their caregiver, and it taught me more about devotion, and its cost, than anything I'd learned before.
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Grieving In The Workplace

Grieving In The Workplace

Grief Coaching, Workplace
Grief doesn't care that you have a presentation on Thursday or a deadline on Friday. It follows you to work whether you're ready or not, and most of us have never been taught how to navigate loss while still showing up professionally. Learn how to here.
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When A Colleague Dies

When A Colleague Dies

Grief Coaching, Workplace
When a colleague dies, the grief that follows is real and deserves genuine space to breathe, yet most workplaces inadvertently silence it with messages to "stay strong" and "keep busy." The cost of unaddressed grief shows up everywhere: lost focus, lower engagement, higher turnover, and employees who are physically present but emotionally gone. But there's a better way. Organizations that respond to loss with open communication, flexibility, meaningful rituals, and ongoing support don't just help their teams heal, they build deeper trust and loyalty that lasts for years. This is an opportunity to show your people that their whole selves are welcome at work, even in the hardest moments.
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Anticipatory Grief

Anticipatory Grief

Grief Coaching
There's a grief that doesn't wait for a funeral. It starts the moment you notice your parent repeating themselves, less steady on their feet, less sharp than they used to be, and suddenly you're grieving someone who's still here. That's anticipatory grief, and if no one has told you yet, it's real, it's normal, and you're not being dramatic for feeling it.
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The Heart Chakra: Where Love and Grief Meet

The Heart Chakra: Where Love and Grief Meet

Chakras, Emotions, Life Coaching, Yoga
The Heart Chakra stands at the intersection of love and grief, embodying the complex dynamics between these profound emotions. In this post, we explore how love, in its many forms, can gently open our hearts, while grief can break them open, bringing both pain and opportunities for growth. Discover how to navigate these powerful forces with compassion, using practices that heal and integrate our experiences. We delve into the importance of acknowledging grief as a form of love, and how nurturing the Heart Chakra can lead to rediscovering wholeness. Learn to balance love and grief through the healing power of breath, the catharsis of tears, and the continuity of rituals for those we've lost. Join us in understanding how our hearts can hold and transform these intense emotions, opening pathways to deeper love and healing.
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Real Conversations on Grief, Growth & the WTF of Midlife

Life is weird. Grief is weirder. Midlife? A total plot twist.

If you’re craving connection and something that actually speaks to what you’re going through, you’re in the right place. Expect thoughtful insights, practical tips, and first dibs on workshops and events — all wrapped in warmth and the occasional midlife meltdown moment.

Join us because figuring this all out is better when we do it together.