The Hot Dish: Serving Up Connection & Conversation
Forget small talk. The Hot Dish is where midlife women gather to serve up real conversations about the things that actually matter.
Hosted in an intimate, confidential setting, these dinners are a space to connect, share, and be truly seen—without judgment, without filters, and (most importantly) with a damn good meal prepared by a local female chef.
Whether you’re navigating career pivots, empty nesting, menopause madness, or just craving deeper connections beyond the surface-level stuff, this is your place. A seat at the table where laughter, honesty, and a little bit of wisdom (or wine) are always on the menu.
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Where real talk and real connection are always on the menu.
What’s on the Table?
A nourishing meal (because no one has deep conversations on an empty stomach)
Guided, meaningful discussions—think big questions, shared experiences, and those “me too” moments
A space where you can be real, be vulnerable, and be heard
A supportive community of women who get it
Guided, meaningful discussions—think big questions, shared experiences, and those “me too” moments
A space where you can be real, be vulnerable, and be heard
A supportive community of women who get it
Did you know?
1 - We used to have a more intimate relationship with death. It was natural and normal and funerals were held at home - usually in the ‘parlour’ (this is why funeral homes are still sometimes referred to as funeral parlours).
2 - Often a wake was held for 3 days. Members of the family would keep watch or vigil with the dead to make sure they didn’t “wake” up (obviously, this was before we understood death in medical terms).
3 - The body would be kept separate from the rest of the house where rooms were filled with neighbours, friends, and extended family. Everyone would gather to eat, talk and often perform live music. (Yep, it was a PARTY!)
4 - Knowledge and tradition passed from one generation to the next because death wasn’t kept from us (yes, we actually talked about it).
Which is precisely why we're here.
Why The Hot Dish?
What Makes Us Different
It’s not just a dinner—it’s a conversation you won’t find anywhere else.
Plenty of places serve good food. Few serve up the kind of deep, honest, soul-nourishing conversations that truly connect us.
✨ A space for midlife women to gather, share, and be real.
✨ No small talk—just meaningful, guided conversations.
✨ A beautifully curated dining experience featuring local female chefs, incredible food, and mocktails or wine.
✨ Come solo or bring a friend—you’ll feel at home either way.
✨ No small talk—just meaningful, guided conversations.
✨ A beautifully curated dining experience featuring local female chefs, incredible food, and mocktails or wine.
✨ Come solo or bring a friend—you’ll feel at home either way.
Come hungry. Leave connected.
Seats are limited—join the waitlist now.
First dinner | March 2025.
Environmentally-Conscious Celebrations
Because honouring a life should not cost the Earth, we place a strong focus on sustainability and are as eco-friendly as possible in everything we do. With each celebration planned, we contribute to local charities working to help reverse the climate crisis.
In a world that celebrates uniqueness, shouldn't the way we say goodbye be just as special?
Life is a rich tapestry of experiences and memories. When it's time to say farewell, the event should reflect this beautiful complexity. At this poignant and emotionally charged time, you can trust us to handle the intricacies of creating a Celebration Of Life that resonates with depth, meaning, and dignity.
That's why we go the extra mile to understand the person whose life you're celebrating. Whether it's integrating special rituals, selecting meaningful locations, or incorporating never-seen-before themes, we work closely with you to ensure that your farewell event is as unique as the life it celebrates.
The People You Trust With Your Life ... And Death
In the swirl of emotions and tasks that accompany loss, it's easy to lose sight of your own needs. Our experienced team is here to lift that burden from your shoulders. We will handle every meticulous detail — from concept to execution — so that you can fully participate in this significant event, rather than being consumed by the logistics.
Your peace of mind is our priority. With hundreds of successful celebrations behind us, we know how to navigate the complexities and sensitivities this time entails. We manage all the elements you'd rather not think about — timing, coordination, suppliers — so you can focus on the emotional and personal aspects of the day. It's a comprehensive approach that leaves nothing to chance.
We provide full-service event planning or à la carte enhancements to an existing plan (i.e. cremation fireworks). Together we'll exceed your expectations for what a true Celebration Of LIFE can look like.
Here's Our Process:
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Once you're ready, schedule a complimentary Discovery Session call with us. During this 30-minute call, we'll get to know you, your needs, and how we can make your event truly special.
Based on our conversation, we'll send you a customized proposal outlining the scope of services, timelines, and pricing. Once approved, you'll receive a welcome packet that guides you through the next steps and what to expect as we work together.
Our team will schedule check-ins with you throughout the planning process to ensure we're on track and to make adjustments as needed.
We handle all the logistics, from vendor coordination to day of management, so you can be fully present during the celebration.
Our relationship doesn’t end after the celebration. We continue to offer resources and coaching support for those 'hot zones' and anniversaries that might be particularly challenging in your calendar.
Sign up for our free email series
If you're not quite ready to dive into the planning process but want to learn more on your own time,
our free "Planning Your Epic Exit Party" email series is a great starting point.
Meet Tammy
Since 2010, Tammy Faulds has been utilizing her heart-expanding and holistic coaching skills to guide people through loss to life.
Being an avid learner, Tammy has continued to tickle her grey matter and has earned her certifications as a life coach, death doula, grief specialist, and yoga and meditation teacher. However, Tammy’s education really began at the innocent age of 6 when she received a cancer diagnosis. And over the years, whether it's for her annual oncology appointments, while working with seniors as they candidly share some of life's regrets, or sitting bedside with loved ones in extremis - she’s constantly reminded that life, and the death that will inevitably come, is precious.
This is why Tammy’s made it her duty to lovingly facilitate these heart-centered conversations and shine a light on these traditionally dark topics.
Being an avid learner, Tammy has continued to tickle her grey matter and has earned her certifications as a life coach, death doula, grief specialist, and yoga and meditation teacher. However, Tammy’s education really began at the innocent age of 6 when she received a cancer diagnosis. And over the years, whether it's for her annual oncology appointments, while working with seniors as they candidly share some of life's regrets, or sitting bedside with loved ones in extremis - she’s constantly reminded that life, and the death that will inevitably come, is precious.
This is why Tammy’s made it her duty to lovingly facilitate these heart-centered conversations and shine a light on these traditionally dark topics.
And why Tammy’s made death, her life's work.
Meet Jennifer
For over 20 years, Jennifer has run an exceptionally successful event management company working primarily with premium brands and companies looking to create unique and memorable events. Bassett Events are experts in creating sparkling initiatives that benefit community charities and non-profit organizations.
Jennifer is a philanthropist and celebrated Event Planner. She has served on many boards and committees, including SickKids, National Ballet School of Canada, and Sunnybrook Foundation. She is passionate about family and is a mother of two beautiful children.
Jennifer is a philanthropist and celebrated Event Planner. She has served on many boards and committees, including SickKids, National Ballet School of Canada, and Sunnybrook Foundation. She is passionate about family and is a mother of two beautiful children.
Meet Jennifer
For over 20 years, Jennifer has run an exceptionally successful event management company working primarily with premium brands and companies looking to create unique and memorable events. Bassett Events are experts in creating sparkling initiatives that benefit community charities and non-profit organizations.
Jennifer is a philanthropist and celebrated Event Planner. She has served on many boards and committees, including SickKids, National Ballet School of Canada, and Sunnybrook Foundation. She is passionate about family and is a mother of two beautiful children.
Jennifer is a philanthropist and celebrated Event Planner. She has served on many boards and committees, including SickKids, National Ballet School of Canada, and Sunnybrook Foundation. She is passionate about family and is a mother of two beautiful children.
I’ll Have What She’s Having… A Night of Real Talk & Really Good Food
If you’re craving deep, meaningful conversations over an exclusive chef-prepared meal, you’re in the right place. Join the waitlist for the next Hot Dish Dinner—because midlife is too short for boring dinners and surface-level chats.
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